Soul H2O Devotions
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The Most Powerful Way To Deal With Self-Criticism
My dear children, let’s not just talk about love; let’s practice real love. This is the only way we’ll know we’re living truly, living in God’s reality. It’s also the way to shut down debilitating self-criticism, even when there is something to it. For God is greater than our worried hearts and knows more about us than we do ourselves.
1 John 3:18–20 MSG
My son Brandon is an amazing salesman.
Over the past five years working for my parents, he’s expanded their business astronomically. At 25, they’re already working on a plan for Brandon to take over the business.
If you know my dad at all, you know what a BIG deal it is for him to hand over the reins!
Brandon loves the thrill of the sale and making his customers happy.
Recently, Brandon called completely excited to tell me about a deal he just made on a trailer sale. A previous customer contacted him in a very difficult situation, having just experienced a personal disaster. Brandon‘s heart was moved with compassion.
When he called the customer back and told them how he could work things out, the customer actually cried, thanking him repeatedly. At that point, I asked, “Isn’t the feeling you get helping someone else out as good, if not better than the feeling you get making a big money deal?” Brandon’s response, “Absolutely mom, absolutely.”
The Most Powerful Way To Deal With Self-Criticism
In this epistle, John imparts such wisdom when he educates believers about God’s love towards us and how we benefit by sharing that love with others. In this week’s verses, John shares how loving each other…the art of practicing real, honest, sincere love towards others will even help defeat those internal negative, condemning thoughts of self-criticism we often struggle to place on mute. Basically…
Helping Others Helps Us
How can you honestly criticize yourself and say you’re not a good person,
or that your life doesn’t count when you’re doing good things for others?Just as my son’s experience at work and his involvement with 100 Guys Who Care Brantford reveal,
It’s an exhilarating feeling when you help others!
Like putting arrows in a quiver; helping others gives you something to throw back at the enemy when he detonates those negative, self-critical thought bombs off in your brain.
So, if you struggle with self-esteem issues, the advice given in 1 John 3:20 could be the best coping mechanism for you today…. get out of your brain and go help someone in need!
Prayer
Father…Your love is so good! Just when I think I understand how much You love me, I learn there’s a deeper well then I ever imagined. It takes a lifetime to grasp Your love. Help me to silence self-doubt with Your love as I spend my time helping others; not introspectively criticizing myself because…YOU love ME! In Jesus Name…Amen
[tweetthis]Get out of your brain and go help someone in need! 1 Jn 3:18-20[/tweetthis]
[tweetthis]*Helping Others Helps Us* 1 John 3:18-20[/tweetthis]
Will you indulge me? I’m hoping you’ll soak in this verse a little. I found it interesting to compare these verses in different translations and I hope you do. Bible Gateway is an easy way to look up Scriptures online, I love the YouVersion Bible App for my phone to look up verses, highlight and listen to the Bible read out to me in many versions. I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE Bible Hub for looking deeper into the original meaning of Scripture and other helpful tools they have.
Compare these verses in different versions. I found these versions help bring a different deeper understanding to what John was teaching: NIV, NLT, The Message, GOD’S WORD ® Translation
1 John 3:18-20 BIBLE HUB BIBLE GATEWAY–THE FOUR SIDE-BY-SIDE
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Here’s a link to the group Brandon is a part of, but they have these groups all over North America. I would suggest googling “100 Guys Who Care Your Town/City Name” to find the closest chapter to you.
100 Guys Who Care BrantfordFirst Posted: April 18, 2018
Reposted: March 8, 2023
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Making The Most Of Your Influence
I was walking into a coffee shop when I saw a mom with a stroller and a kindergarten-aged son making the most of her influence.
The mother walked up to a homeless man sitting near another door and asked if he would like a gift card she had for a local pharmacy. She had $15.00 left on it and felt to give the card to him. He was very thankful, stood up to receive it and left.
Making the Most of Your Influence
I spun around, walked right back out the door and told her how impressed I was by her kindness and generosity. When I let her know I thought it was powerful she did this for her son to see, they both smiled big!
Parenting Well Isn’t For The Weak
There’s a famous poem called “Children Learn What They Live”.1 It has been both an encouragement and a wake-up call for me in years past. As a parent, you influence daily. Children watch your every move…even following you into the washroom at times…but you don’t have to be a parent to be a daily influencer.
“And you yourself must be an example to them by doing good works of every kind. Let everything you do reflect the integrity and seriousness of your teaching.”
Titus 2:7 NLTIf you work in an office, on a farm, in a factory, as an officer of the law…wherever you work, the people around you are watching. Titus reminds us we need to “be an example to people by doing good works of every kind.” That means we’re expected to do a lot of good stuff!
So, give people around you some inspiration for greatness today. Lead the way by example, making the most of your influence!
Prayer
Father…Thank you for leading by example. There’s nothing you ask me to do that you haven’t shown the way. I’m amazed that you want me to influence others for You. Help me to look for opportunities to do good and live in a way that will reflect Your love. In Jesus Name…Amen
- Titus 2:7
- 1 Timothy 4:12
- 1 Peter 5:3
- 2 Thessalonians 3:9
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First Published: July 30, 2017
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